07.24.2008 | reconnection
This morning the Internet finally came through for me.
For some backgruond, Clare is a girl that my mom and I hosted back when I was 12 or so through a program called Project Children. The program brings young kids from Northern Ireland to the US for the summer where they can experience a “normal childhood” for a summer away from all of the “troubles”. It was one of the best summers of my life. Clare and I kept in touch through letters and things for a few years after she left, but sometime around the start of high school, we lost touch. I’ve been trying to find her ever since.
On my “things to do” list you’ll see an item that says “get back in touch with Clare.” It is one of the few items on that list that I have actively been pursuing. Every once in a while I’ll stick her name into a Google query with all sorts of other identifiers - anything to even get a lead on locating her. I’ve never come up with anything helpful.
Until today.
I got a notification from a new twitter follower who happened to be from Northern Ireland. I didn’t think much of it, but I soon found myself typing Clare’s name into google yet again. This time, though, the results were different. It was a profile page for a social network. I clicked through and tried to figure out if it was actually her. The profile was from someone my age from the town Clare is from. Promising. I got up the guts to send a message. “hey there- this is going to sound crazy - but do I know you? Have you ever been to the US? To New Jersey?”
Not even a minute later I had a response. It was her. Holy heck - after nearly 8 years I finally managed to find her.
We chatted for a bit on MSN this afternoon. She’s now engaged and has kids and is doing great. Hopefully it was the first of many chats. Wow. It’s amazing what the Internet can do, isn’t it???

Aug 1st, 2008 at 2:07 am
The girl (now older woman) who babysat me when I was four years old once reached out to me. After we confirmed that, yes, I was the one way back when I was living as a wee tot in Agawam, MA we, uh, kind of ran out of things to say.
Aug 2nd, 2008 at 12:47 pm
Haha, yeah we’ve pretty much encountered that already. That and Internet connectivity isn’t all that reliable over there evidently. Ah well, it was fun while it lasted! The other girl and I, on the other hand, seem to still have plenty to say to each other. Funny how those things work.